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Some of the most moving and brilliant speeches ever made occur at funerals. Please upload the eulogy for your loved one using the form below.

For John Taylor: 'On 83, dad finally faced the inevitable, unplayable delivery', by Patrick Taylor (read by Jonathan Agnew) - 2018

August 21, 2018

I don’t know Patrick. But I’m thinking of him and his family this evening. Good job I read this ‘blind’. Wouldn’t have got through it otherwise pic.twitter.com/OBLucbKylE

— Jonathan Agnew (@Aggerscricket) August 20, 2018

20 AUgust 2018, Lord's, London, United Kingdom

My Dad, John Taylor, had – unlike the current England batting line-up – dug in and battled doggedly to reach 83.

He built gradually through his 50s as a true gentleman, a pharmacist, a sportsman and a father of two boys before unexpected cloud cover descended just as he was looking to break free from the shackles and play with the freedom that retirement would bring.

On an ever-increasingly sticky wicket, he faced up and defended against a beamer in the form of leukemia, the yorker of muscular dystrophy, the googly of Parkinson’s, the reverse swing of diabetes, and latterly, was struck down by the vicious bouncer of dementia.

But like fellow Yorkshireman Brian Close, he never winced, complained or succumbed to the temptation of amateur dramatics, he just accepted the cards he was dealt and squeezed every last drop out of life that he could on a single-by-single basis with his amazing care team acting as runners.

On 83, dad finally faced the inevitable, unplayable delivery and left the field of play.

I use this cricket analogy because Test Match Special has been and will continue to be an institution of great importance to generations of our family.

Dad was rushed to hospital on Thursday 9th August with another bad chest infection. On Friday, we were told that he had 24 to 48 hours to live and that he may in fact never regain consciousness.

On the Saturday I visited Dad in hospital with my wife, and after an hour she had the inspirational idea of getting Test Match Special on my mobile. After five minutes, he opened his eyes and was completely in the room and aware of us.

He was able to convey that he was comfortable and was at peace. I was able to tell him what a wonderful father he is and just how much I love him.

Not one comfortable with massive shows of emotion, after 15 minutes he requested that we listen to the cricket.

For three hours we listened to Chris Woakes crashing it about at Lord’s and making his maiden Test century. We got a digital radio into Dad’s hospital room and he listened to Test Match Special the next day.

I don’t think it’s any coincidence that he passed peacefully just after England had sealed victory.

Source: https://www.bbc.com/sport/cricket/45258754

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Barry Neil Todd: 9 March 1941 - 28 August 2015

Barry Neil Todd: 9 March 1941 - 28 August 2015

For Barry Todd: 'We mourn the passing of our standard bearer, conscience and father figure', by Mark Dunstan - 2015

October 21, 2015

3 September, 2015, Ormond Uniting Church, Ormond, Melbourne, Australia

The notice of Barry’s passing, which the Club placed in the newspaper, could not be more accurate.  It said,

“Barry Todd, Toddy
The Committee, members and friends of the Elsternwick Cricket Club mourn the passing of our standard bearer, conscience and father figure.  His unwavering commitment, passion and contribution to the Club will never be matched.  Will be sadly missed by all.  A true legend of the ECC.”

I will get to some figures later, but more important is Barry’s impact during more than 60 years of cricket involvement.

Barry had a philosophy which guided his treatment of people on and off the cricket ground.  It may not be fashionable in competitive sport, but he would not speak any less respectfully to an opponent on the ground than he would socialising in the pavilion.  You could say he was successfully immunised against white line fever.

That the Club won the Spirit of Cricket award in the association this year, is a reflection of his influence.

I, with many others, looked to Barry for his Christian approach, his social concern and his wonderful sporting understanding.  He lived all that with a great commitment.  In difficult times, Barry was a source of understanding and support.

If you went with Barry to a sporting or related event, it was difficult to leave.  From the MCG to a subbie meeting he would always find a familiar face and seek a lengthy chat.  It wasn’t small talk.  He sought new information, provided valuable comments and he remembered personal facts and both would walk away enriched.  A mention of Elsternwick CC would prompt the comment, “You’d know Toddy then."

If he didn’t talk face to face, he would ring. Boy, would he ring.

It could be difficult to return a call from Barry.  His home phone could be tied up for hours while he made cricket related calls.  Pre-season preparations and recruiting probably created spikes in Telstra’s profits. 

Club records will have reams of Barry’s hand written notes and lists for all occasions.  Every MC or presenter at social functions and award nights will have received a detailed running sheet with no detail spared.  There would be a list of people to thank, omitting his name as the most important.  He was the master of recognising the efforts of others while down playing his own contribution.

Through the power of his relationships with all those players passing through the Club, he was able to establish the Wickas as a thriving past players’ group.  It will have a subdued 20th annual dinner this year.

At committee meetings, we would turn to Barry when it came to general business.  He invariable had an important point which the rest of us had overlooked.  It often showed a thoughtfulness for a player or member or an appreciation of our civic responsibilities.

The feelings of others were usually paramount in Barry’s thoughts.  That made the selection of teams a potential minefield.  If he was forced to drop a player, Barry was more likely to require consoling than the dropped player.

Barry looked forward to the Club hosting country week games.  He would spend the day chatting to the players and officials from the country teams and was always determined to present them with the best possible experience with his organisation of conditions, afternoon teas and hospitality.  At Elsternwick home games, he would take the first round of drinks into the opposition’s dressing rooms.

Over the last 35 years, since returning from Benalla, Barry has been instrumental in recruiting every captain, coach and most senior players to the club.  Three current players and office bearers at the Club were recruited through his Benalla.

connections.  Others have been cold called and seduced by his mix of genuine sincerity and enthusiasm.  Those same qualities produced close and trusting relationships with people dealing with the club, such as council staff and sponsors, who in some cases became close personal friends.

As a Club Delegate to the VSDCA for 24 years, he ensured that Elsternwick CC was a respected member of the Association and gave inordinate amounts of time to organise the Association’s 90th Anniversary celebration at Elsternwick Park, the centenary dinner and entertainment and when hosting the Championship Final in 1985/86.  He contributed passages to the centenary publication, relying on his passion for and experience of the R.M. Hatch junior competition. 

While coach and manager of the Hatch team, he was keen to give country players an opportunity and visited Gippsland, Shepparton and other towns to conduct clinics and recruit players.  It wasn’t his principle aim, but the result was three premierships in six years.  A remarkable achievement.  Some Association members thought that country recruitment shouldn’t be allowed and suggested a rules amendment.  We referred to it as the Todd amendment.

Barry’s self-effacing nature was summed up when he would do something well and suggest it was “good for him.”  If it was good enough for Barry, it was usually exceptional by any standard.

He was awarded an Australian Sports Medal in 2000 for his contribution to cricket.  Despite the significance of that award, it seems trifling as a recognition of his efforts.

After the force of his deeds, the statistics almost seem unnecessary.  For the record, he debuted in the Elsternwick CC first XI as a 13 year old and played a total of 445 games, of which 115 were in the firsts.  He won the batting average in all four grades, including the significant 1965/66 season when the firsts played in their last final for 27 seasons.  He made a century in the fourths at age 55.

He also played seven seasons for Benalla CC while teaching there.  I had the privilege of starting my senior cricket career in that team captained by Barry.

As an administrator, he has been on the Committee since 1980 and was President for 15 years from 1980/81.  An award for the most outstanding contribution during the season was recently named after Barry.  In truth, he could have won it almost every year.

During nearly all of that time, Lenore has not only supported Barry in his cricket passions, but has been a club stalwart in her own right.  They have been a model for couples in all aspects of life.  It was always a delight to have Neil, Jenny and Kathy at the club in their early years and we understand their enormous loss.  I now know how much interest Barry has taken in encouraging his sporting grandchildren with the construction of a special pitch at home and finding individualised equipment.

I am pre-empting an official announcement, but informal discussions started recently with a view to naming a cricket facility after Barry.  There can only be unanimous support for a Todd Reserve or a Todd Pavilion in the not too distant future.

Barry was a joint author of a publication about Elsternwick Park’s history.  He particularly liked the reference in 1921 to a long term secretary of the Club who helped create Elsternwick Park.  The same words can now be used to say that Elsternwick CC which he has so successfully developed, will forever be to members a lasting monument to his great and generous works on their behalf.

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For Phillip Hughes: 'We must dig in and get through to tea', by Michael Clarke - 2014

July 16, 2015

3 December, 2014, Macksville, NSW, Australia

I'm deeply honoured to have been asked by Phillip's family to speak today. I am humbled to be in the presence of you, his family, his friends and his community. He was so proud of Macksville and it is easy to see why today.

Taken from the game, his family and loved ones at the age of just 25, he left a mark on our game that needs no embellishment.

I don't know about you, but I keep looking for him. I know it is crazy but I expect any minute to take a call from him or to see his face pop around the corner.

Is this what we call the spirit? If so, then his spirit is still with me. And I hope it never leaves.

I walked to the middle of the SCG on Thursday night, those same blades of grass beneath my feet where he and I and so many of his mates here today have built partnerships, taken chances and lived out the dreams we paint in our heads as boys. The same stands where the crowds rose to their feet to cheer him on and that same fence he sent the ball to time and time again. And it is now forever the place where he fell.

I stood there at the wicket, I knelt down and touched the grass. I swear he was with me.

Picking me up off my feet to check if I was OK. Telling me we just needed to dig in and get through to tea. Telling me off for that loose shot I played. Chatting about what movie we might watch that night. And then passing on a useless fact about cows.

I could see him swagger back to the other end, grin at the bowler, and call me through for a run with such a booming voice a bloke in the car park would hear it.

The heart of a man who lived his life for this wonderful game we play, and whose soul enriched not just our sport, but all of our lives.

Is this what indigenous Australians believe about a person's spirit being connected with the land upon which they walk? If so, I know they are right about the SCG. His spirit has touched it and it will be forever be a sacred ground for me.

I can feel his presence there and I can see how he has touched so many people around the world. The tributes to him from cricket lovers kept me going. The photos, the words, the prayers and the sense of communion in this loss from people across the globe have shown me his spirit in action. It has sustained me and overwhelmed me in equal measure.

And the love of my band of baggy green  and gold brothers and sisters has held me upright when I thought I could not proceed. His spirit has brought us closer together - something I know must be him at work because it is so consistent with how he played and lived. He always wanted to bring people together and he always wanted to celebrate his love for the game and its people.

Is this what we call the spirit of cricket? From the little girl in Karachi holding a candlelight tribute to masters of the game like Tendulkar, Warne and Lara showing their grief to the world, the spirit of cricket binds us all together.

We feel it in the thrill of a cover drive. Or the taking of a screamer at gully, whether by a 12-year-old boy in Worcester or by Brendon McCullum in Dubai. It is in the brilliant hundred and five-wicket haul, just as significant to the players in a Western Suburbs club game as it is in a Test match.

The bonds that lead to cricketers from around the world putting their bats out, that saw people who didn't even know Phillip lay flowers at the gates of Lord's and that brought every cricketing nation on earth to make its own heartfelt tribute.

The bonds that saw players old and new rush to his bedside. From wherever they heard the news to say their prayers and farewells. This is what makes our game the greatest game in the world.

Phillip's spirit, which is now part of our game forever, will act as a custodian of the sport we all love.

We must listen to it. We must cherish it. We must learn from it. We must dig in and get through to tea. And we must play on.

So rest in peace my little brother. I'll see you out in the middle.

Source: http://www.bbc.com/sport/0/cricket/3030830...

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